This wider concern around entitlement surfaced in a candid episode of Everybody’s Crazy, hosted by April McDaniel and Savannah James. Savannah acknowledged the elephant in the room. “I think there are totally politics.” She added, “I think that when we are talking about, um, private—more private—institutions, I feel like there’s a lot of entitlement that comes along with that too.” She noted how parents often believe their child should get the best role, more playtime, or attention. And while that mindset is common, it risks affecting how coaches treat both the parents and the players themselves.
Aug 7, 2024; Paris, France; Savannah James, wife of Lebron James, sits court side before the game between the United States and Nigeria in the women’s basketball quarterfinals during the Paris 2024 Olympic Summer Games at Accor Arena. Mandatory Credit: Kyle Terada-Imagn Images
She didn’t stop there. Savannah continued, “That can cause rifts between how coaches react to the parents or maybe even potentially react to the kids.” Moreover, she added, “I’ve always told my kids, like, listen, you just got to play your part.” Savannah James made it clear to her kids that one can’t silence the critics.
So, how should they react? Her answer to that question to her kids was: “So you just kind of got to roll with it and just do your job to the best of your ability and try to prove people wrong, you know, and then you get your spot.” Being the child of a superstar doesn’t always make the path smoother. Sometimes, it adds bumps no one expected.
The different approaches Savannah and Lebron James take
While Savannah James openly addressed the politics around privilege in sports, LeBron had his own way of guiding their sons. Her take was more vocal, his more reflective, but both revealed how the James household navigates pressure.
Behind the fame and flashing lights, LeBron James seems to keep one thing sacred: how he raises his kids. While the NBA world often debates whether his sons benefit from his name, the Lakers star appears to take a hands-off approach when it comes to their training. In a recent episode of Mind the Game, LeBron opened up about how he supports Bronny and Bryce. And it’s not by coaching from the sidelines, but through a group chat!
This private chat, formed in 2024, includes just LeBron, Bronny, and Bryce. It’s not for casual updates or light-hearted jokes. Instead, LeBron explained, “And my message was to them, ‘Everybody’s road to success is different, so stay locked in and patient.’ That was my message to my boys last year.” These aren’t just words; they’re a window into how he mentors from a distance. He allows them space to grow while giving guidance only when needed.
Feb 7, 2023; Los Angeles, California, USA; Savannah James watches her husband Los Angeles Lakers forward LeBron James (6) answer questions from media on court after the game against the Oklahoma City Thunder at Crypto.com Arena. Mandatory Credit: Gary A. Vasquez-USA TODAY Sports
What might surprise critics is that LeBron avoids interfering in his sons’ basketball journey. Despite the pressure surrounding Bronny’s NBA debut and Bryce’s final high school year, LeBron made it clear: “I’ve never got involved with my kids’ coaches… I’ve never sat through practice the entire time to monitor how my son was utilized.”
It’s a choice that not every sports parent makes, especially one with LeBron’s resume. He didn’t stop there. LeBron added, “I’m never on the phone with the coaches. Listen, coach my son, coach him however you want to. I hope you hold him more accountable than any other kid here.”
It’s a powerful stance, one that separates encouragement from interference.