On March 4, Ilona Maher’s three-month contract with the Bristol Bears came to an end. But while her stint in England’s Premier 15s league was temporary, her impact was anything but that. From the moment the Bears announced her signing, a certain corner of the internet had plenty to say. Her loud personality? Picked apart. Her physique? Criticized. Her boldness, her confidence, her unfiltered presence? All were placed under a microscope. But while the critics talked, Ilona played. She took on the new challenge of 15s rugby—a different format, in a different setup, with a brand-new crowd. And she didn’t just adapt. She thrived. The result? She changed the game—literally.
According to a tweet from Sarah Randell, Ilona’s addition to the Bears’ lineup sparked a surge in popularity that couldn’t be ignored. The average attendance at Bears women’s fixtures skyrocketed by 103%! But the real game-changer? It wasn’t just more people in the stands—it was who was filling them. Among the new wave of fans, 25-30-year-old women claimed the highest percentage share — not just in the stadium galleries but also online. Suddenly, more young women were tuning in, showing up, and engaging with women’s rugby. Because of Ilona Maher. And just when you thought her influence was confined to the rugby field, Ilona made waves somewhere else. This time, it was on TikTok. So, what happened?
Ilona Maher takes the stand for the women’s rugby
On March 27, Ilona Maher—the ever-passionate advocate for women’s rugby—dropped a heartfelt TikTok clip that instantly caught the attention of her more than a million followers. In the video, the 28-year-old Burlington native spoke directly to the camera, her voice warm but firm. Her message?
With a playful smile and a fiery spirit, Ilona declared, “Hi, my sweet girl. You know what? You CAN play rugby. We tackle. We run. We stiff-arm—dare I say, maybe more fun than football. And guess what? We have the same exact rules as the boys. No differences. So tell your mama to bring you out to some practices. I think you’ll like it.” Fierce. Empowering. Unapologetic. Ilona’s words were a rallying call, not just to one little girl—but to all the Lenas out there. However, to understand the context behind Ilona’s words, we need to rewind to the viral clip that first captured her attention.
The original video, shared by TikTok user Stephanie Easley, showed Stephanie’s young daughter, Lena, in tears. Her face was red, her eyes watery, and her little voice cracked as she explained why she was so heartbroken. Her reason? Someone told Lena that “girls can’t play football.” Those words—carelessly spoken—had crushed her spirit. A girl who adored football was suddenly made to feel less than—simply because she was born a girl. But as Lena’s tears fell, her mom, Stephanie, knelt beside her. Her voice was soft but steady with conviction.
In the clip, Stephanie whispered the kind of words that shape futures: “Girls can do anything they want to do. And sometimes the world isn’t so nice to girls, huh? For no reason. It makes no sense.” With each sentence, Stephanie planted seeds of resilience in her daughter’s heart. She wiped away the tears with truth and hope, reminding her that no one—not a kid on the playground nor a doubting adult—could limit her potential. But Stephanie didn’t stop there.
The loving mother turned her message outward, sending a rallying cry to every sports-loving girl out there. “You CAN play football. Okay, football girls and sports girls, we want to see you show my baby girl that you can do whatever you want to do.” Her words weren’t just meant for Lena—they were meant for every girl fighting to be seen. And Ilona Maher heard her loud and clear. Why shouldn’t she? She has long advocated for women’s sports to survive, even in the face of hostility. Remember what she said in her interaction with The Telegraph this year?
The well-experimented way to block the outer noise
On March 20, fresh off her three-month stint with the Bristol Bears, Ilona Maher sat down with Fiona Thomas of The Telegraph. But this wasn’t just another post-season interview. This was Ilona—raw, honest, and unflinching—speaking about the ugly side of women’s sports that few dare to discuss.
With her usual candor, the Burlington native didn’t shy away from the constant wave of criticism she usually faces. “There are the comments, ‘Why would I watch the women’s game?’” She shrugged slightly, her voice unwavering. She’d heard it all before. The casual dismissal. The armchair critics who’ve never touched a rugby ball but feel qualified to judge the women who play it. And then there were the personal jabs: “I get comments about just being the Instagrammer. And, ‘She’s not good at rugby.’” It’s the same tired narrative—that if a woman dares to be funny, visible, and unapologetic online, her athleticism is somehow diminished. As if charisma and skill can’t coexist. But Ilona Maher isn’t buying it. Never.
With a casual shrug, Ilona delivered her matter-of-fact response: “It’s going to be constant.” She knows the criticism won’t stop. The doubters won’t disappear. And the hate will keep coming—but so will Maher. “It’s about blocking them out and continuing to promote my message.” And what is her message? She didn’t sugarcoat it: “The hate will continue to come, but I’ll continue to fight it off.” For Maher, this isn’t just about ignoring trolls. It’s about refusing to be silenced. Every time she steps onto the pitch, posts a TikTok, or claps back at a sexist remark, she’s making a statement: Women belong here. Women’s sports deserve your attention. And if you’re not watching? That’s your loss.
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