“Harassed” Over Wild Rumor, Coach Spo’s Ex-Wife Breaks Silence to Reveal Conversation With Jaime Jaquez Jr.’s Girlfriend

The power of a random rumor is greater than most people would perceive. Jaime Jaquez Jr., a standout youngster for the Miami Heat has been in a relationship since 2016 with Ciera Muscarella. There didn’t seem to be a disruption in their long-standing bond. However, a sickening statement about the possibility of Jaquez having a relationship with his head coach, Erik Spoelstra’s ex-wife, has sparked a raging conversation.

Nikki Spoelstra finalized a divorce with the head coach in November 2023 after seven years of marriage. And with Spo being such an adored personality in the NBA, she became a victim of trolls—then and now. The whispers about her alleged involvement with Jaime Jaquez Jr. are spreading like wildfire. But the 38-year-old unveiled a key piece of information in a brutal response to the trolls.

“It’s one thing for you sports fanatics to come to my page after I made a really big life choice and talk crazy and it’s another thing entirely for you to come to my page and harass me and call me crazy names over something a rumor, a f*****g story that is 100% flat out not true… I would never do that for two main reasons which I actually don’t feel the obligation to explain to you. Just that it would not happen and it’s not real,” she said.

 

Nikki Spoelstra speaks on the rumors going around:

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Nikki thinks the “sports trolls” are going after her because of the Heat’s recent struggles. She is becoming the target for fans to vent their anger. But she didn’t just squash the rumors. Nikki Spoelstra also helped bring peace to Muscarella and her family amidst a wave of public outrage and probably a lot of confusion.

“I already talked to the girlfriend. I already talked to the mom and the three of us are here rolling our eyes at you knuckleheads. Oh my gosh and the reel that I posted about women in male-dominated fields about dating men under 25 because they’re more easilt manipulated, it’s a f*****g joke guys,” Spoelstra further explained.

Of course, her response, no matter how convincing, isn’t going to stop the trolling. It’s hard to stay a public figure and reason with people who want to create a damaging narrative. The bottom line is no facts are supporting the story. Moreover, if Nikki Spoelstra has offered her support to Cierra Muscarella and her family, it seems to be an indicator of her innocence.

The trolling never stops for Erik Spoelstra’s ex-wife

Nothing severe ever happened between Nikki and Erik Spoelstra that’s known to the public. The split was an “amicable” decision, as per their statement. There were never any reports of turmoil or difficulties. It was a decision they felt was best for their lives while they still remained committed to co-parenting their three children.

However, even her decision to part ways with the Heat head coach didn’t come with peace.

Notably, right after finalizing the divorce, Erik Spoelstra signed a record-breaking $120 million extension with the Miami Heat. The franchise awarded him for his unbreakable loyalty and success with the team. This was used to slander the podcaster. Some perceived the Heat purposely delayed the announcement as Spoelstra was going through the divorce.

Others went more direct. After the news of his extension, they began trolling Nikki for missing out on the money. And she was just as fearless back then. In a scathing response, she wrote, “According to crass, ignorant, uninformed society at large, women can’t ‘win.’ Women can’t be genuinely in love with someone successful. No, they’re pretending and they’re in it for the money. And if a woman chooses to not be with a successful partner, apparently she’s an idiot.”

It’s difficult for any person to deal with such public criticism. It’s even tougher when a small rumor or other information could invite trouble. Nikki Spoelstra has managed to climb down of the thick atmosphere in her own way. She isn’t rattled by suspicions. Rather, it won’t take her long to flip the barrel over at those who are trying to take her down.

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