“I just try to show up. Whatever that looks like for you [because] all of our lives are different.” When Dwyane Wade said this in 2023, he wasn’t just talking about presence: he was speaking to intention. For him, being a father isn’t about flashy moments. It’s about consistency. Whether it’s listening, taking a quiet drive, or just being nearby, Wade finds meaning in the small things. With five kids (one is his nephew, for whom he gained full custody back in 2011) and a public life, he still makes time to be there. That’s the part he values most: showing up for what really matters.
When Zaya came out as trans, the reaction was loud and not always kind. Internet trolls and even celebrities weighed in with hateful words. People who knew nothing about her felt entitled to comment. “He’s not up there yet,” Boosie BadAzz scoffed, dismissing her identity entirely. Young Thug tweeted that “All I wanna say to dwade son is ‘GOD DONT MAKE MISTAKES’ but hey live your true self.” It was harsh, and it was everywhere. For a young girl finding herself, the world didn’t feel safe. But inside her home, there was a different story unfolding.
Instead of feeding the hate, Wade created a bubble of peace for Zaya. He tuned out the noise and focused on what she needed. In a recent interview with The Atlantic, he shared a glimpse into that love: how he picked her up in a $200,000 Maybach. He had just come from a meeting, dressed up and feeling sharp. “I was just hanging on the car, like, ‘Hey, Zaya,’” he said, smiling at the memory. Her friends laughed, and so did she. At that moment, he wasn’t a celebrity. He was just her dad.
Aug 6, 2024; Paris, France; Dwyane Wade looks on at halftime between France and Canada in a men’s basketball quarterfinal game during the Paris 2024 Olympic Summer Games at Accor Arena. Mandatory Credit: Kyle Terada-USA TODAY Sports
But what really made it special was what came after. “Did I look cool?” he asked her with a grin. Zaya’s reply was short, but it stuck with him: “Yeah, Dad, you looked cool.” That wasn’t just about fashion or cars. It was about love, acceptance, and being seen. Zaya has said it best herself: Fathers should focus on making their kids feel safe, loved, and accepted. In their home, that message is more than words; it’s the way they live.
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